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How You Can Use an Accountability Partner to Increase Success
Guest post by Keesha Johnson of MyMissiontoEscape.com
When you are an entrepreneur, there will be times when you are not as passionate and self-motivated as you were when you first began your business. Sometimes you may feel a little stuck and realize you’re not progressing at the rate you need to in order to reach your business goals. It can be especially difficult for you when you’re working on these goals while making the transition from employee to entrepreneur!
No matter where you are in your entrepreneurial journey, consider getting a business accountability partner! Having a successful accountability partnership will be beneficial to your business!
“The greatest gift is not being afraid to question.” – Ruby Dee
WHAT IS AN ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER?
An accountability partner is someone who makes sure you stay committed to the goals that you’ve established for yourself. They want to see you accomplish your goals, and they will hold you to them.
Having an accountability partner will give you the chance to get out of your comfort zone. Your accountability partner will not let you get away with excuses. They will provide you with honest feedback and offer you support and encouragement along the way.
When you listen to your accountability partner’s feedback, you will gain a different perspective on how you can approach things in your business. You’re also learning from each other when it’s a successful accountability partnership.
Your accountability partner wants to see you succeed. They’ll do whatever they can to make sure you do!
“The way to achieve your own success is to be willing to help somebody else get it first.” – Iyanla Vanzant
HOW DO YOU FIND YOUR BUSINESS ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER?
Networking will play a big role in finding your business accountability partner.
Attend business networking events in your area. Join professional organizations that specialize in your business interests. This will give you the chance to meet others face-to-face who share your desire to become a successful entrepreneur.
Your accountability partner doesn’t have to be in your business industry or niche. If your backgrounds differ, then that can be an advantage. Because of the variety of experience, you can share different viewpoints and recommendations to each other.
You can also find an accountability partner by networking online. Facebook groups are one of the best places online to meet other business owners from all types of backgrounds.
Find engaging Facebook groups, and actively participate in them. You’ll start to meet others who are just as passionate about achieving business goals.
Ask other Facebook group members if any of them would like to participate in an accountability partnership. Be clear about what you expect in an accountability partner and get the ball rolling!
“It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.”
– Lena Horne
WHAT SHOULD BE ADDRESSED IN THE ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNERSHIP AGREEMENT?
Once you’ve both agreed to be accountability partners, schedule an initial meeting to further discuss how the partnership will work. Your first meeting will be an opportunity to understand what stage you’re in with your business. You should also talk about important milestones you both want to achieve.
Here are some questions you should address during your first meeting:
How often will you meet?
Decide on the frequency that works for both of you. For instance, you may want to meet weekly or twice a month.
How will you communicate with each other?
If you will have your accountability meetings in person, then decide on your meeting location. Examples include coffee shops, cafes, restaurants, co-working spaces, etc.
If you’re meeting via conference calls, then determine if they will be video or audio calls. For video calls, select which video conference tool will be used. Examples are FaceTime, Skype, Zoom, etc.
How will you set goals and measure them?
Determine if you will be setting business goals for the year, quarter, or month. Set a deadline for when you’ll share these goals with your business accountability partner. This will help your partner see where you’ll be concentrating your efforts and how these goals will be tracked.
How will your meetings flow?
Set a basic agenda that you can use consistently for every meeting. This will help you both stay on track so that you’re being considerate of each other’s time. Here’s an example of how your meeting could be handled.
Greetings: You can briefly chat about anything you’d like before you start your accountability updates.
Self-improvement Activities: This is a chance to share things you’ve done since your last meeting that pertain to self-development. Examples include interesting books or articles you read, insightful podcasts you enjoyed, networking events you attended, or helpful training courses you took.
Accountability Updates: You will each have the opportunity to provide your updates. Alternate who will share updates first during each meeting. Specific updates can include:
- Review accomplishments achieved since your last meeting.
- Share setbacks you encountered.
- Talk about adjustments you made that contributed to your wins and the lessons you learned from the experience.
- Discuss what goals you’ll be working on next.
The most successful entrepreneurs I know are optimistic. It’s part of the job description.” ― Caterina Fake
WHAT ARE SOME CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOOD ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER?
Here are a few characteristics that you will see in a successful accountability partner!
- Reliable – They are committed to attend your meetings and arrive on time. They make the meetings a priority.
- Honest – A good accountability partner is not afraid to give you constructive feedback…even if it’s not what you want to hear. They will be candid with you when they offer advice. They’ll call you out when they realize you’re second-guessing yourself and selling yourself short about achieving your goals!
- Observant – They’re listening attentively to you during your meetings. They recognize when you may be overdoing it and risking business owner burnout.
- Supportive – They are encouraging and non-judgmental. They can offer assistance in some areas where you’re not as experienced.
“We may encounter many defeats, but we must not be defeated.”– Maya Angelou
HOW CAN YOU RECOGNIZE WHEN THE ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNERSHIP IS NOT WORKING?
As the accountability partnership continues, you may encounter some bumps along the road. It’s important to address any issues with your business accountability partner as soon as possible. Here are some examples of when accountability partners are not giving you their best!
- They begin to forget about your meetings.
- They agree with every decision you’re making with your business goals.
- They don’t offer suggestions or feedback.
- They don’t raise concerns about your commitment when you’re not making progress on any of your goals.
- They become increasingly negative and judgmental when you discuss your ideas.
- The partnership has become one-sided because they’re demonstrating a lack of commitment to their own goals.
It’s simple. The partnership won’t work when you or your partner are not holding each other accountable!
The accountability needs to be reciprocated. Otherwise, it will not be mutually beneficial. Make necessary adjustments to get the partnership back on track!
You need to go from wanting to change your life to deciding to change your life. If you want to live a life you’ve never lived, you have to do things you’ve never done. – Jen Sincero
MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE AS A BUSINESS ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER
Here’s how I started my accountability journey with my business accountability partner!
We were introduced by a mutual friend. We agreed to have our kickoff meeting in person at the start of the new year, so we met for brunch at a local restaurant. We hit it off from the moment we sat down!
We each shared our visions we had for our businesses. We talked about some of the obstacles we had encountered up to that point. This part of the discussion gave us a good perspective on the purpose of our businesses and why we chose to focus on those areas. This provided us a better sense of where we both were in our business journeys.
Next, we discussed how we wanted to handle our accountability meetings. We decided to conduct our meetings via conference calls. We agreed that, when schedules permitted, we would do at least one in-person meeting per month.
During our chat, we established that we wanted to meet weekly. We discussed the best time that worked for us, and we scheduled the weekly accountability check-in meetings on our calendars.
We also created an initial meeting workflow so that we knew what to expect moving forward.
As we wrapped up our initial meeting, we agreed to document major milestones we wanted to achieve for the year. We would use these as a reference to help us prioritize our goal tracking. We would be prepared to share our goals with each other during the next meeting.
Ever since that initial meeting, we’ve continued to hold each other accountable via conference calls, in-person meetings, and text messages.
We do a quarterly reflection to review our progress, celebrate our accomplishments so far, and determine if any adjustments should be made for goals that remain. Understanding that circumstances can change along the way, we also use quarterly checkpoints as the opportunity to discuss if any goals need to be put on hold. We introduce new goals that we want to achieve, too.
My business accountability partnership is going very well, and I’m excited to see how we end our year!
“The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but on significance — and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning.” – Oprah Winfrey
CELEBRATE YOUR WINS!
It’s easy to forget to take time to celebrate your achievements while you’re busy working to become a successful entrepreneur! It’s okay to applaud your accomplishments!
Reward yourself when you reach a major milestone. You worked hard so you deserve it! It’s up to you how you want to celebrate. Make acknowledging your successes a priority, too!
“The most effective way to do it is to do it.” – Amelia Earhart
CLOSING
Having a business accountability partner should be part of your business growth strategy. When you find the right accountability partner, you can see some incredible results for your business.
When you’re in the partnership, make sure that it is working for both of you. Respect each other’s time and show up for each other. Stay committed to the process! Make the accountability partnership a priority, and it will be a win for both of you!
Author Bio:
Keesha Johnson is the founder of the blog, My Mission To Escape. Her goal is to help working women navigate through the work environment, manage job burnout, and explore entrepreneurship and other flexible work options. In addition to being a business operations consultant, Keesha is a yoga enthusiast, Chick-fil-A addict, and a diehard lover of 80’s and 90’s music.
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I love that this article doesn’t just say “get an accountability partner.” We hear that often. But Keesha breaks down how to find one, what to look for, what your meetings should look like and how to know when it’s not working. SO much great information!
Yes, Elayne! Keesha has done an amazing job here of outlining all the steps that you need to take if you want to find yourself and accountability partner. I’m so glad you enjoyed the post! Thanks for reading!
Thanks, Elayne! I appreciate your feedback!
Wow, this is a perfect road map for anyone looking to have an accountability partner. I agree having one can make you take more responsibility for what your doing. You look forward to your partners growth and you get kudos for things people do not realize your doing behind the scenes. Its not easy being an entrepreneur let’s face it but getting support is the best way to push past those stumbling blocks. I adore my accountability partner she keeps me on track for sure. ?
I too absolutely love having an accountability partner! It’s great to have someone to bounce ideas off and especially someone that has the same mindset as you. For sure one of the best growth tools there are for a business! Thank you for reading, so glad you enjoyed the post!
Thanks, Shauna! Having an accountability partner is an awesome experience when you’ve found the right one!
Such a great in-depth article! Makes me want to find an accountability partner ASAP. Thanks for the helpful tips on how to go about finding one!
So glad you enjoyed the article Becca! Finding an accountability partner is one of the best things I ever did. Hope this helps you find your own soon as well!
Thank you, Becca! I am sure you will connect with an accountability partner soon! Keep us posted!
I can see the great benefits of having an accountability partner and having someone asking me the hard questions that will keep me on track! this is such a helpful post!
Absolutely Melissa! If you can find the right accountability partner, that’s not afraid to get hard with you when times require it, it’s so amazing for your business! Glad you enjoyed the article, thanks for reading!
Thanks, Melissa! I’m so happy that the information was helpful!
I love it when my business groups have accountability partners. It keeps us all on track and someone to reach out to with questions. Looking forward to reading more of your business posts!
I hadn’t thought about business groups having accountability partners for success. But what an amazing idea Michelle! So glad you enjoyed the post, thanks so much for reading!
That’s great, Michelle! That shows that they value the importance of accountability partners in business! Thanks for sharing your experience!
Great post! I need an accountability partner for sure, or a mentor or someone to keep me on task. I can get things done all day long in my freelance writing business but when it comes to blogging, I totally freeze. Then nothing gets done and I get even more frustrated! Thanks for sharing, Keesha and Sasha!
You’re so welcome Rebecca! I’m glad you enjoyed this post. I’ve always found that accountability partners are an amazing way to build and grow your business, and keep you in a reality check. I may be looking for a new accountability partner! Maybe we’re a good fit? I need some help with freelance writing and I can certainly help you out with blogging if you’re game?
You’re welcome, Rebecca! It looks like you may have found your accountability partner! You and Sasha may be a great match! ?
This is a brilliant idea. It makes so much sense to have an accountability partner for business goals, just like fitness or academic goals.
Totally! I think having an accountability partner it’s such a great experience and can really hold us to higher standards. So glad you enjoyed this post, thank you so much for reading!
Thanks, Kimberlie! I hope this inspires you to consider an accountability partnership for your business goals! ?
Yes, yes, yes! I have an accountability group (there are 3 of us) who meet early Wednesday mornings twice a month. We each get a moment to discuss what’s going on in our working lives, and then to receive feedback. Some amazing a-ha moments and business events have taken place because of our group. Love what you have to say about it, Keesha, especially the qualities to look for! Thank you!
Such an incredible idea Kelly! I love the idea of get-togethers and a group of accountability partners! I bet you guys come up with amazing stuff! So glad you enjoyed this post, thanks for reading and for your comment!
Thanks so much, Kelly! It sounds like your accountability trio is very successful! Showing up to those early morning meetings definitely shows your commitment to each other!
After reading this article, I realized that my accountability partner(s) have been all of the fellow bloggers in these Facebook groups and Pinterest followers. As I read everyone’s articles and engage with them it pushes me to stay diligent and try to create more and better content. I have had times when I got lazy, but the more time I spend engaging with everyone, the more motivated I become.
Thanks for sharing!
Yes, Eric! You can find accountability Partners everywhere! What’s really magic is when you find one or two that you can really click with and meet with them outside of those groups. It’s an amazing way to force you to think outside of the box and to grow your business. So glad you enjoyed the post, thanks for reading!
You’re welcome, Eric! It’s awesome that you’ve found your source of motivation in the blogging community! I wish you much success with your blog!
Thanks for laying this out the way that you did. I’ve been talking to my SO about my blog journey, but he cannot relate to all the intricacies. I need to get another blogger to partner up with. Thanks for the nudge!
I hear you Kari! My husband is the same way LOL. I just talked and talked and he has no idea what I’m talking about. Having somebody that is in the same mindset as you can be an incredible way to grow your business and think outside of the box. I love bouncing ideas off of other people, especially when they’re like-minded. Thank you for reading, so glad you enjoyed the post! Hope you can find your own accountability partner soon!
Thanks for checking out the blog post, Kari! I’m glad it gave you the extra nudge to connect with an accountability partner! ? Keep us posted!
An awesome idea. Thanks for sharing!
Thank You Tasha! I’m glad you enjoyed the post, thanks for reading.
Thanks, Tash! I’m glad you liked it!
Thank you for this! I have not even thought about having an accountability partner through my journey. Such important information here!
I’m so glad that we could share this with you! I’ve always found an accountability partner to be an amazing experience, especially when you’re like minded. I can definitely Excel your business to new heights. So glad you enjoyed the article, thanks for commenting and reading.
You’re very welcome, Lina! I hope this has encouraged you to consider finding an accountability partner for your entrepreneurial journey! Keep us posted!
This is a new concept for me but your thorough post absolutely sold me on it being a game changer for one’s entrepreneurship!
– Laura || https://afinnontheloose.com
Thank you Laura! Definitely having an accountability partner in business is an amazing experience. I recommend it to anyone trying to level up their game. Thank you for reading, glad you enjoyed the post!
Woo hoo! Thanks, Laura! Glad you’re sold on the idea of accountability partnerships! ?
I would love to have an accountability partner as I grow my business. I have a lot of moving pieces, and sometimes it just feels overwhelming as I am doing it all by myself. I will follow your tips and guidelines when seeking to work with someone to help keep me accountable to my goals.
I’m so glad you decided to find an accountability partner Betsy! It’s such an amazing experience when you can get a few Minds together that are on the same path and can push each other to new levels. So glad you enjoyed this post, thanks for reading!
I’m glad the blog post was helpful, Betsy! I’m sure you’ll find an accountability partner soon! Keep us posted!
This an awesome and detailed post! I love how you break it down! I might have to get mean accountability partner ^_^
LOL! I love that you say a mean accountability partner! Sometimes it takes someone that doesn’t mind giving you that extra added push to build your business to a new level. Accountability Partners can be great for that if you find the right one. So glad you enjoyed the post, thanks for reading and commenting!
Thanks so much, John! I wanted to share as much as possible so that it would be useful once you’re ready to find an accountability partner! ? I’m glad you loved the post!
I neeeeeeed an accountability partner, like, yesterday! This post just solidifies it for me. I think I’ve been holding back because I’m not a social person, but I’d just love to have someone in my circle who understands the self-employed/blogging struggle! Thanks for this. ?
Absolutely Ciara! It’s so great when you can have someone that knows what you’re feeling and understands the path that you’re on in your court. Having an accountability partner to do that is a great way to push you outside of your comfort zone sometimes and just a bounce ideas off. Thanks so much for reading, really glad that you enjoyed this article!
Awww, you’re so welcome, Ciara! It’s very helpful when you can connect with someone who identifies with similar struggles you’re experiencing! Take that first step to find an accountability partner who will be a good fit! Keep us posted!
This is such a great post! I never even thought to seek out an accountability partner before now. I’ve been in a couple of accountability groups for bloggers but they never really did much or were taken very seriously.
Being a STAHM who blogs can be pretty lonely and it’s easy to get into a funk or let your business go by the way side.
I think I’ll have to seek out an official accountability partner! Thanks for the idea. ?
Thank you Courtney! I totally believe that having a great accountability partner or Partners can so help your business grow to the next level. It helps you to be able to bounce ideas off each other but also to push you outside of your boundaries when you need it. If you’re in our blogging group on Facebook blogging babes Collective, I’ve got a thread started for those who want to try to find a new accountability partner. So glad you enjoyed the post, thanks for reading and commenting!
Thanks, Courtney! I’m glad to hear that you’ve been inspired to find an accountability partner! Good luck with your blog!
An accountability partner is exactly what I need. I used to have one for writing fiction but not business. I never thought of that.
Great post. Definitely gives me some things to consider.
Thank you
Thank you Elizabeth! Yes, having an accountability partner in business is a great idea to help you grow and bounce ideas off each other. So glad you enjoyed this post, thanks for reading and commenting!
Thanks for reading, Elizabeth! I’m glad this has encouraged you to think about getting an accountability partner for business!
WOW I love how detailed you’ve made this post – a lot of people just say “Go find some accountability” but don’t even suggest HOW to do that, lol! Well done ?
Yes Jodi! Keesha does an amazing job of outlining how to find a great accountability partner in this post. So glad you enjoyed the article, thanks for reading and
Thanks so much for your feedback, Jodi! I’m thrilled that you liked the blog post! ?